“Ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer.” We’ve all heard that quote before, right? I used to respond to inane questions with a pretty irate response.
Now, I just don’t answer questions I don’t want to, or I patiently respond, with love.
Of course I slip up sometimes, but as I mentioned to a friend, who noticed I sounded more “confident and relaxed” lately over the phone…
I told him the reason for my new and refreshed demeanor
: “My pussy is more relaxed.”
Here’s 10 reasons why:
- because over this summer i made it a point to be more submissive and relaxed in my relationship
- i focused on pleasing another for the sake of pleasing
- i spent time in nature, grounding, crying…smoking
- i laughed and loved, and never took those moments for granted
- i explained my point of view or my feelings, and listened to others, becoming more vulnerable than I’ve ever been
- i went to the 7th circle of hell from pain and back in surrender (even coiling in my bed grunting like a wild wolf) and reconnected with my cycle, to get to know my womb and blood
- i went home to utah to see family I haven’t seen in 20 years
- i trusted that i’d be ok no matter what
- i utitlized my creativity to bring resources to myself
- i made it a point to hear my ancestor’s voices, telling me they would never let anything happen to me
I did a LOT of inner and outer work to relax my pussy. And it feels so damn good. You can do it to.
Ashe!
Love this one so much!
Thanks so much for your support, always Claudia!